Some are single. Some have many partners. Some tell stories. Some are stories. Some destroy stories. Some destroy you. Some create you. Some are You. Who are You.
Every master uses devices of one type or another. One way or another, the master is there to provoke, to awaken. There is no set way and every master will be unique in how he shares. Main thing is to know your own uniqueness. In that sense you just have to be uniquely you.