There is a perfect Tantric technique that has come to me today.
Be with your partner and get totally naked and put on your favourite music and dance totally for a half hour and then come together in tantric embrace, and as you come together begin to sing together for a half hour. Sing whatever you feel, but sing totally, and then make love totally, and once you have explored every aspect of making love together just lay next to each other and share the truth. Not your truth, but THE truth... the truth of your being...
Repeat this exercise every day for five years...
After five years continue to do the same with the simple addition of strawberries and chocolate...
Enjoy...
Namaste