True connections are an interesting phenomena. Really there is no mental gauge or way to know what is a true connection for you. You have to feel it in your being. Even what your emotions tell you can be a total and absolute product of conditioned reality. Really the only ways to experience trueness in this regard is through letting go of all past connections no matter how real or unreal they seemed. You sort of just start out with an absolute unknown slate and just move intimately from this present moment with what opens. The way to gauge if you are moving with or encountering true connections in your life is that there will be a true spark of realness in that connection. A true flavor of being in this bond. I will give you an example. I have one friend right now who is in love with a woman or situation that fits to all his cuddly happy go lucky inspirations and aspirations, none of which are real or deeply nurturing. They are sort of nurturing in the way a birthday cake from Safeway is nurturing. It is very exciting and yummy and smiley and not something that you would want to be part of your every day diet. In a sense all the relationships that society or media feed to us have very little true value and in a way highlight and give energy and attention to specific possibilities that have very little value. They may feel amazing and may even nurture surface realities tremendously. All I am saying is; what is really true?, what truly nurtures you?
Author ~ God Dieux
Canadian Spiritual Author, Mystic Poet, Spiritual Guide, Singer, Songwriter, Artist, Photographer, Filmmaker, Visionary